Today, July 4th, is the day Americans celebrate their Independence Day. (It's the 4th of July here in Australia as I write this.)
Some of you may know that I was born and raised in America, then travelled the world eventually settling in Australia eleven years ago and became a citizen here six years ago.
So, why do I still think about Independence Day after all these years.
It's an interesting little journey for me (in my own mind anyway), as I remember twenty-some years ago when I was a teenager and "boycotting" Independence Day at home to my parents' shock and horror. I had a very idealistic view of the world (still do) and I just couldn't imagine continuing what I thought at the time to be a mindless patriotic exercise. I found it difficult to salute the flag and say the pledge of allegiance.
What I was sure of, although my parents didn't agree, is that humanity is about humans, not about borders, flags and anthems; and I couldn't wait to start travelling the world to explore the diversity of humanity.
Of course I understand the necessary structures of countries, borders and all that. Hey, I've become an Australian citizen and I really do get the importance of choosing where I live based on political and social reasons.
And I suppose to cut a long story short (and so we can get on with the coaching exercises), my definition of "independence" has evolved over the years.
For me it now means independence from limiting thinking; independence from oppression of humans in general; independence from fear (and one of its ugly personas, hate).
I am more free now than ever before in my life. This isn't just about where I call home (Although the song, I Still Call Australia Home brings tears to my eyes), or the political affiliations I have, or the journey I've travelled in personal and professional development.
Independence is celebrating my right to choose the relationship I have with myself, how I see myself and my place/role in the world.
I'm free from my own fears.
Today, I stand strong and independent. So today, and everyday, I celebrate Independence Day.
Coaching Exercises
1. What does "independence" mean to you?
2. In what ways are you independent?
3. Where and how would you like to be independent? What choices are required on your part to achieve that?
4. If there are any real or perceived obstacles in your way toward being independent, what are at least two solutions for each obstacle?
5. What are you committing to?
As always, if you need any further personal support in response to any of these coaching exercises, please consider using the askacoach.com service.
All the best,
Noel
Noel Posus - Master Coach
www.askacoach.com
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